Wedding planners are all about the logistics, from vendor referrals and contract negotiation to day-of execution of your vision. Some planners also provide design or styling services, helping with the creative specifics of your wedding day, while others opt to leave those details to a wedding designer—which means you’ll need to hire two professionals to create the day you’ve dreamed of.
Planners take the guesswork out of the process, making planning a wedding as seamless and smooth as possible. A planner will keep track of your budget and handle the logistics. This is a skill that many can learn, but only the best planners have the years of experience and credentials that set them above the rest.
Be sure to discuss whether your planner offers design services beforehand. If they don’t, you may want to hire a wedding designer as well.
Designers normally put in less time than general wedding planners. They carry out the following duties:
You should hire one if:
Coordinators make sure everything you’ve done up until they take over is in good shape. Hiring a coordinator to take over the month before your wedding gives them time to tweak any details and follow up on loose ends. Everything is in order, nothing is forgotten, and you’re free to enjoy your wedding day.
In contrast to planners, a wedding day coordinator will jump into the process a few weeks prior the big day, usually to help those couples who are planning the wedding themselves. Yes, there is help for those couples who are planning their weddings on their own!
A coordinator will be logistically focused and available to you to get everything organized as you lead up to the day of the wedding. They are there to take over on the day of the wedding to ensure that all details that are planned, are executed. As we like to say, a day-of coordinator is essential for any couple who wants to do most of the planning themselves, but when their wedding day arrives, they need a professional to execute all of their hard work and planning. Having a professional such as a day-of wedding coordinator there to handle the logistics is so essential because a wedding couple should be able to enjoy themselves at their wedding and not worry about anything!
Organization and attention to detail are key! This is a first time process for most wedding couples so that they are truly flying blind through the planning. With this in mind, we always recommend helpful ways to simplify planning. The guest list, floorplan design, seating arrangements, and timeline tools are invaluable throughout the planning process.
As the wedding day approaches, we construct a detailed timeline and run of show for the day of the wedding, confirm and manage all wedding vendors, and become their point of contact on the wedding day. We monitor and setup the wedding details, organize the bridal party and family for the ceremony as well as do damage control for anything that might come up on the day of the wedding. Think of day-of coordinators as your own personal wedding day ninja! Basically, we take the wedding you have spent the last year or so diligently planning come to life and without a hitch!
While most venue coordinators and catering managers are happy to handle basic on-site logistics and simple setups, keep in mind that they’re there for a task they were hired for. This means that they’re making sure the food is served on time, not that the DJ is playing the right songs or that there are enough pens for the guest book.
It’s helpful to tell them that you don’t have a planner and won’t be securing one, as they will do as much as they can for you. However, the best option is still to ask a responsible, trusted friend to handle a few important tasks, like managing the timeline or handling any issues that arise with vendors, and then to thank the person with a gift or favor.